Think of the Children

Apart from every other consideration, the good of children should be the primary concern, and not overshadowed by any ulterior interest or objective. I make this appeal to parents who are separated: “Never ever, take your child hostage! You separated for many problems and reasons. Life gave you this trial, but your children should not have to bear the burden of this separation or be used as hostages against the other spouse. They should grow up hearing their mother speak well of their father, even though they are not together, and their father speak well of their mother”. It is irresponsible to disparage the other parent as a means of winning a child’s affection, or out of revenge or self-justification. Doing so will affect the child’s interior tranquility and cause wounds hard to heal.

Pope Francis, Amoris Laetitia, 245.

Dare To Be Different

Have the courage to be different. Don’t let yourselves get swallowed up by a society of consumption and empty appearances. What is important is the love you share, strengthened and sanctified by grace. You are capable of opting for a more modest and simple celebration in which love takes precedence over everything else.

Pope Francis, Amoris Laetitia, 212.

Truly and Fully Known

Scientific advances today allow us to know beforehand what colour a child’s hair will be or what illnesses that may one day suffer, because all the somatic traits of the person are written in his or her genetic code already in the embryonic stage. Yet only the Father, the Creator, fully knows the child; he alone knows his or her deepest identity and worth.

Pope Francis, Amoris Laetitia, 170.

Reject This, Reject That

…it is clear that the reception of the liturgical reform is an eminently important test for the reception of Vatican II and, especially, of its ecclesiology. The reception of Sacrosanctum Concilium includes reception of the ecclesiology of the liturgical constitution and its ecclesiological consequences; vice verse, the rejection of Sacrosanctum Concilium is a rejection of both the liturgical constitution and its ecclesiological consequences. Regarding this, the case of the Lefebvrists is particularly significant. The Society of St. Pius X has always looked – from their perspective, coherently – at the liturgical reform not as a problem as such but as the gateway for Vatican II and the “discontinuities” that the ultra-traditionalist schismatic community has always rejected: the vision of the Church and in particular the Church and ecumenism, the Church and the Jews, and interreligious dialogue.

Massimo Faggioli, “The Liturgical Reform and the “Political” Message of Vatican II in the Age of a Privatized and Libertarian Cullture”, p. 12, in Worship 90 (Jan 2016): 10-27

Review: Living in the House of God: Monastic Essays

Living in the House of God: Monastic EssaysLiving in the House of God: Monastic Essays by Margaret Malone

My rating: 4 of 5 stars

This short book of essays from a scholar of the Rule of St Benedict was engaging and thought-provoking, challenging for the better some of my own (admittedly limited) understanding of the little rule for beginners.

Malone, who has been immersed in the spirituality of the Rule for her whole adult life, brings her experience and scholarship – and indeed her humanity – to the task of opening up the Rule of St Benedict for those who care to plumb its depths.

For anyone interested in the Rule, or in the spiritual life that flows from the Rule, this book is a must read.

From the back cover:

“How should we live in this house of God? We know that the way a building is shaped also helps in determining the way those within it live and relate. We are indeed formed by what we form. Qualities such as integrity, hospitality, humanity, and beauty in a place will enable its dweller to live lives in which such qualities are evident. They was we understand who we are and how we live will be reflected in our places and vice versa. Our place become bearers of meaning and memory.” – From Chapter 1

In Living in the House of God, Margaret Malone draws on her study of and research on the Rule of Saint Benedict to show the ways in which this ancient rule can illuminate modern life. The broad range of topics this book examines – from Benedictine life as sacrament to Augustine’s influence on Benedict to obedience and the art of listening, among others – is itself a witness to the generous flexibility of the Rule, as Benedict proposes a way of life that truly corresponds to the deepest needs of the whole of human nature.

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Ministers of Education

The Church is called to cooperate with parents through suitable pastoral initiatives, assisting them in the fulfilment of their educational mission. She must always do this by helping them to appreciate their proper role and to realize that by their reception of the sacrament of marriage they become ministers of their children’s education. In educating them, they build up the Church, and in so doing, they accept a God-given vocation.

Pope Francis, Amoris Laetitia, 85.